The holidays are approaching and I would
have no idea if I didn’t have a calendar because it is getting warmer every
day, the sun is shining, and there are no Christmas trees here!
A few weeks ago, I had an idea to celebrate
Thanksgiving here with everyone that is here in Fontem to work in the hospital or
the school. I shared my idea with someone and next thing I know, everyone was
asking me about my feast! So we celebrated Thanksgiving! I had only planned on
12 or so people attending in the beginning but we turned into a group of 25! The
menu: plantain (a fruit that looks exactly like bananas but you have to boil
them and they are really sweet), rice (what would be an African meal without
this?), sauce (for the rice), bacon (the vegetable, not the meat), chicken (not
quite turkey, but close enough), empanadas, and eggosey (I have no idea how to
spell this word or explain what it is, but it is absolutely delicious). For
dessert: pound cake, coffee pudding, and a Pillsbury cake with icing from a box
that my dad sent me 2 months ago… Everyone came up to me saying, “Mama mia! I
never knew you could make cake, this is delicious”!
Before we ate, I prepared a little history
about Thanksgiving and explained the Thanksgiving holiday from black Wednesday
to black Friday. Then we went around our huge table and said what we were
thankful for. As we went around and all shared what we were thankful for, I
counted 25 people from 15 different countries, and 5 continents all gathered
around one table. Fourteen different countries coming together for a meal as
one family, it was wonderful!!! After dinner, people prepared games to play and
even a PowerPoint about Thanksgiving! We ended the night singing the Star
Spangled Banner (yes its true, but not my idea!), and I had to lead the group
in singing because although we had the words, nobody knew the tune. But
everyone really wanted to sing it, so I had no choice! Everyone was really
happy to celebrate this feast for the first time, and it was awesome to be able
to share something so important to my country with everyone here.
I ventured out of Fontem a couple of weeks
ago with two friends for the day. We traveled to a nearby town called Dschang
(pronounced “Chung”) to do some shopping and sightseeing. On the way there, we
traveled with a Chief and his wife that had a car. The roads out of Fontem are
so bad that they had to hire a professional driver to get us there. Now when I
say roads, I mean dirt roads…this makes travel much more difficult when it is
rainy and muddy! There are some holes in the road that are 5 or 6 feet deep
from cars during the rainy season that constantly drive the ground in deeper
and deeper. We managed to get there with almost no problem (just a flat tire).
Dschang is much, much bigger than Fontem! I
didn’t realize how isolated I had been in Fontem until I went to Dschang. And
the market- it is huge. It was like I was stepping into Wal-Mart for the first
time when I had only been shopping at Walgreens (not the 24 hour one). We
wanted to buy so many things but since we were planning on taking a bike back,
we could only buy what we could carry on our backs. My French from high school
actually came in handy because we were in a francophone zone (French speaking).
So after a few hours of shopping, eating, and walking around, we headed back to
Fontem.
We
had planned on taking two bikes (like motorcycles that people drive…its their
version of the taxi) to get the three of us home, but at the last minute we
decided to take a van… not such a good last minute decision. There were 20
people in this van, shoulder to shoulder with our knees jammed into the seat in
front of us. The 2 hour journey turned into 4 hours because we got stuck on the
road at least 5 times, and our driver got sick so we had to stop so he could
“ease himself”. We had to continue to exit the van so we could free it from the
mud and in the course of this, I slipped in the mud and fell on my back,
covered in mud. So public transportation in Cameroon isn’t exactly comfortable,
but we got where we needed to go!
Since the dry season is coming, we can
spend more time trekking in the woods (trekking=hiking, but they say trek
here). Our new favorite thing to do is to go to the small waterfall nearby. Ann Julie (midwife from France), Chiara (my
Italian roommate), and I trek to the waterfall whenever we have the chance.
This particular waterfall is a series of little falls that lead to a bigger
fall, and a place to swim…its like a water park. And there are big rocks all
over the place that are flat so you can lay on them in the sun… its amazing!
And there is also a cave like structure with still water inside… the surface of
the water lights up when the sun hits it, its unreal. All this only 20 minutes walk away from our
house!
Another place we like to go is to a
junction where there are 2 hanging bridges… one is literally just made out of pieces
of wood nailed together, maybe 2 feet wide with metal wire hanging it from
various trees. It goes over a river and people use it everyday! There is a
another smaller bridge made of bamboo tied together with a single bamboo tree
as a railing…its not so easy to cross!
We added another member to our family in
the gen house, so now we are three. Her name is Ada and she is from Vietnam.
She is here to do physiotherapy and acupuncture. She knows a lot about Chinese
medicine and alternative therapies so I am excited to learn (and to try) them.
The other day I walked into the bathroom and she was sticking needles into her
head and eyebrows… all she said was, “I am going to sleep very well tonight”!
The English we speak in this house is very strange… we speak Cameroonian
English with French, Italian, and Vietnamese accents… and I have become an
English teacher 24 hours of the day.
Sometimes after work, I go to Cristabel’s
house (a friend I met when I first arrived). Its always an adventure for me
because she has chickens, goats, and geese (after much practice, I can now
catch chicken with my bare hands). They always insist on feeding me when I come
over, which isn’t a problem for me. Her brother was cooking fufu one evening
for about 15 people, which isn’t easy because you have to stir it for a long
time and it is very thick… I don’t know what came over me but I just grabbed
this big wooden stick and started to stir this giant pot! Everyone got a kick
out of seeing a “white man” cook this big pot of fufu, but then I accidentally
broke their stick because I was stirring too hard!
Everyone here treats us like family. You
can literally walk up to anyone’s house, walk inside, and talk with them (and
they will most likely make you stay for dinner). When I was walking home from
the market one day, I was talking with one woman that was making dinner. She
said she was sad she wasn’t finished so that I could stay for dinner. She was
cooking a huge quantity of food but there were only two people in her house so
I asked why she was preparing so much food and she said there was no way she
could make food without sharing it with her neighbors. Everyone here seems to
have a strong sense of responsibility for others. Even in the hospital, if a
patient doesn’t have food to eat (because no, we don’t have room service), you
can guarantee he/she will be fed by the family of another patient. The kids
here are also really friendly. It’s not unusual for me to be walking on the road and
some little girl will come up to me and just hold my hand.
I have come to appreciate everything I took
for granted back home, even the value of a ziplock bag. My dad sent me a box a
couple of months ago with various things wrapped in ziplock bags in case they
burst open. Little did he know that these ziplock bags were probably the thing
I was most thankful for! We had nothing to wrap food in or to carry food to
work for a snack, but now we do! I used to throw away ziplock bags after using
them one time at home but now we wash them over and over again as if they are
Tupperware. And I’ve also discovered how useful some things can be- like a
rock! We grind all our spices, ginger, garlic, etc., with a stone and it works
so well…who would have thought? And when we exercise, we do arm exercises with
stones. I don’t even know how I am going to cook without this stone when I come
home.
The hospital is getting really busy because
people are able to travel easier to the hospital during the dry season. One man
came to the hospital last week after falling from a palm tree. His
transportation? A stretcher made out of bamboo carried by 10 men, trekking for
5 hours! We have so many patients in the medical ward right now. Yesterday it
was me and a nursing assistant working in the medical ward in the afternoon…we
had 32 patients! I had just enough time to do vitals, pass medications, consult
an outpatient, and do a couple of procedures. Some patients I had not even a
clue why they were in the hospital… luckily they were all stable!
In December, I will be traveling to another
village for a clinic, and then to a bigger town for a wedding. In January, I
will be traveling around the country for a week before leaving. It will be a
busy month so I don’t know if I will be able to update…but in case I don’t, I hope everybody has a Merry Christmas!